My last day in South-Africa

It seemed like yesterday when I was writing my first weblog about going to SA...and now this adventure is already over!
The goodbye was hard, I tried not to cry, but had to. I preferred the children to remember me with a smile on my face, but when the floodgates open, they open! So with tears in my eyes I was leaving Mother of Peace.
Some of the kids and housemoms wrote me a farewell note, which was so sweet. One of the children didnt want to give me a hug, as if she new it was going to be the last one... It felt like I was abandoning them and that was the last thing I came here for. Then again, if the goodbye would have been easy, the experience wouldnt have been so great as it has been! Despite the warning of my volunteer coordinator there is one thing I failed big time: Do NOT get too attached to the children. I got attached to them and to the housemoms and caregivers and everybody concerned with MOP. It made the goodbye hard, but the experience unforgetable.
But life goes on... time for some serious backpacking
. Although it feels a bit strange to focus mainly on having fun, spending money, party and experience the luxourious site of SA, it probably is the best thing to do! My first stop was Coffee Bay where there was so much to do, that I had hardly any time to miss MOP. I went surfing, hiking and enjoyed the backpackers life along the East Coast of SA!
At the moment I am in Cape Town, where tomorrow my flight will leave to India (via Bombay, Bangalore to Mysore). Cape Town is great and there is something for everybody. Or, like in my case, there is everything for somebody (me)! I went winetasting (the pictures show you how many tasting I had), went up to Table mountain and abseiled down (not scary at all
), did some shopping, drumming, took a trip to a township including church session (very impressive) and drove to the Cape of Good Hope (including a visit to the pinguins).
From now on my Asian adventures will be posted on www.mirjamhaenen.whereareyou.net which is also accesible via www.mirjamhaenen.com
If you were on this mailinglist, you will also be on the new one, so no worries, I will keep you posted.
By the way, my African phone number will no longer be valid, so please use my Dutch one again: +31623406991. My Norwegian one doesnt work.
Take care,
love,
hug,
MJ
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amina wrote:
17 Jul 2007 at 08:57 good-byes are never easy esp when u say it to children.... have fun on ur travels ahead and say hello to stine when u get to mysore :)Yvette from Be More wrote:
17 Jul 2007 at 10:44 Hi Mirjam,Goodbyes are never easy! But I'm sure the kids will remember your smiles instead of your tears! Enjoy Asia...
-Yvette from Be More
Jo en Elly wrote:
17 Jul 2007 at 19:52 Wij gunnen je nog veel "everything for somebody". In ieder geval meer dan op de missende foto's van de wijnproeverij :). Een goede reis en tot snel.(in Thailand) Geniet van India en Nepal.Liefs van ons XXXXDeon wrote:
19 Jul 2007 at 14:33 Hello Mirjam,Yes, these goodbyes are really tough, ask any of the BB volunteers I have had to say goodbye to. Wait, you experienced one of them!
Don't get too attached to the children. Sound easy enough but is definitely the most difficult to remember when you are having a great time with them.
Enjoy the rest of your travels and good luck for the future!
Ineke en Hay Nelissen wrote:
21 Jul 2007 at 10:47 HoiMiriam, we hebben genoten van je verslagen. Vooral de manier waarop je de feiten met je gevoelens combineert is roerend. Knap wat je gedaan hebt!We hopen dat je ook in de rest van jouw reizen, wel heel anders natuurlijk, heel veel mooie dingen meemaakt.
Gr. Ineke en Hay
Name: Mirjam Haenen
Age: 29
Volunteered at Mother of Peace from 30 April 2007 to 30 June 2007.
About me:
After volunteering at MOP in 2007, I had to go back and see 'my' kids again. So the end of 2008 I went back and it was
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